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Home away your home is your school, college or university where you spend considerable time of your student life. Once you gain consciousness or assume senses may be at the age of as early as 3years which is the officially minimum age to send a kid to school is a pioneered step to build relations out of your home comfort. You never forget and feel like nostalgic about your every first experiences so as your student life relations. Sometimes this very step creates the base of your relationships further in the life as this is your first day in between strangers and away from your known faces at home.
At the age of 3 years, you are too young to understand the abcd of relationships. You go to school try to mingle with others or to fight or keep your comfort corner as you do not have much options and experience to deal with such a situation. By the time you spend considerable time with your class mates you will like more and more comfortable. The essence of these relations is nothing else but mutual respect and understanding. Your teachers your principal and parents at your home create that sense of socializing with people around you. Generally it takes time to feel comfortable and get mixed with the people as this is important too, to understand the person you are dealing with.
The base of any relationship and the basic mantra to get along with any relation for long time is to ‘Be you’, do not change yourself for the sake of anybody or do not opt change in your behavior or relation according to each passing situation. As the things changes continuously but you can’t change yourself with every different condition and even you or anybody else can’t accept these continuous changes. The basic idea is to stay the way you are stay raw stay unshaken even when nothing works and nobody stands by you in your bad times.
The more you change the more things get complicated and it will make the situation more complex to deal with. The benefit of stay unchanged is that then you need not to spare time to accept the changes happened due to the way you have changed your perception and principal of life. But remember when these changes are required due to something wrong on your part do not hesitate or waste time to accept these changes.
As you grow and have better understanding of life and people you tend to stay with, you feel like to stay with the people who are sort of your kind, these people think, behave, act, work like you whether it is in your student life bonding or personal relations with family and friends. As the person grows he looks for that emotional support to be dependent on, he or she wish that people around them should be identical to them but here it creates the problem of emotional dependency and develops your character and behavior where you shy off the changes.
People have different thoughts and opinions about emotional part of the behavior, some say it shows your weakness and some thinks it makes you stronger and create better person in you. While well blend of emotions and rationalism works together things become easier as you are living with characteristics of both. Emotional part gives you capability to live the relationship and make you a genuine person on the other side rationalism gives you insight to differentiate between good and bad for you and for your loved once.
Same is applicable when you spend your precious years during your school/college/university life as a student. Academic life connections are supposed to be a more complexes them all as you are always on a learning spree. You cannot decide much and concrete how the things will turn up when you behave in a certain manner because you meet all different minds throughout your student life. You are kind off inexperienced, impatient and immature to deal with complexities of relations as it takes lot of efforts, patience and time to get matured.
When you reach to the higher classes or in college universities things become bit easy and smooth because you already had experience of years to deal with different people and situations.
So when we talk about student life relations vis-à-vis emotional and rational aspect, you have advocates for both the theories. Some say they are more emotional and love the life to live this way and others say there must be a sense of rationalism in you to make you understand good and bad about people and you. You cannot be self-critical all the time but perfect blend of these two only makes things easy as you do not bother your mind to think vice-versa when it comes to the relations which are based on harmony and mutual respect and here your emotion part works in this situation. When we talk about being rational it is nothing but counter-measuring situations and acts happening around you in accordance to your benefit.
School life relations are driven on the different pitch and experience whereas during college life you are equipped with emotional shocks, those low point of your emotional life, some pretty bad experiences, lot of good and bad which occurred in your life has taught you lessons to improve as a person and deal with the people and situations differently may be more practically in that sense you again weigh the good and bad incidents. Remember bad teacher (situations) always teaches you the best lessons of your life.
If you go in accordance with experiences you have gained you feel like more confident and genuine to deal with any circumstances. So when you feel like you rely on your school college friend you must do as this whole world is based on trust and mutual understanding. And at the times when you feel like something is not going right you must step back give some time to yourself to understand and analyze the situations and go ahead with appropriate step.
Apart from academics, sports, fun, new experiences student life form the foundation of your certain behavioral aspects such as the response you will give when you are happy or the reaction you perceive during bad moments. So either you are into your school, college or university make best out of this time to learn and enjoy the different experiences as this time is not coming back again.
To improve the relations with your mates and seniors try to give and take help from them. One good idea is to exchange goods for a specific period of time or to exchange it for some quick bucks. There may be your school or college companion who is in dire need of the needs which are of no use for you, so exchange or pledge them for free to help someone who needs it.
Other than your relations with your best buddies, with your friend’s group, or friends back home. There is still left a lot from other relations during student life like relations with your teachers, not to forget your favorite teachers, academic staff, people from your favorite cafeteria, people from parking lot where you always feel like to rush from, your strict principal or director of the school or college all these people give their contribution to make you competitive and good human being in life.
With technological advancements things have become more accessible and easy like while you are talking about exchange of your used goods you can use number of online exchange platforms to make that deal. AllstudyX is one such platform which is dedicated to students and work tirelessly to provide quick and reliable services to students. Using this platform you can make your used goods transactions very smoothly as you can find the buyer or seller within or around your campus only which will save your time and efforts.
On this platform you can buy or sell your used items following very simple process on website where all you need to do is to post a ad of your used item with detailed description, photos of your used product and your contact number so that prospect buyer can reach you. Even if you are a buyer you can select product of your need from variety of items available online on this platform. If you want instant services you can download AllstudyX application from Android and iOS platforms.
We are committed to provide you services which are ahead of the time. Segregating students section from big block of online exchange platform users was one such initiative to provide ease of doing business to the students. It was the move to provide better options to deal in to students with their limited budget and resources. We are confident that this move will bring students from different walks to come closer and they will interact and share more for the benefit of each other.
